There are so many things that changed over a period of time due to many factors like age, choices, preferences and so on. And then there are some things which never change like the upbringing of you as a child or perspective to view the world .
But I'm not talking psychology here, let me connect it to the fashion. Some people think fashion is something wearing comfortable, while others think fashion as coming out of the their comfortable zone. some think being classy and chic is fashion while others just believe in doing something out of the box. This is how people's perspective to view things comes in.
We change our styling and dressing sense while growing from childhood to adulthood. We all do.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
Don't let fear or insecurity stop you from trying new things. Believe in yourself. Do what you love. And most importantly, be kind to others, even if you don't like them.
I have seen many people in my life that change their perspective of viewing things just because someone else do not believe in that. But the truth here is that people like this do not believe in their own thoughts and themselves. Taking advice is absolutely fine, getting updated of some new news is absolutely fine, but what not fine is abandoning your own thought process (and this is not just about fashion) .
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF
There are many times in life that people will tell you are doing it all wrong. Whether its fashion or some another decision of your life. They will judge you, sometime they will think wrong about you, but that fine. You are not entitled to anyone's opinion. FOCUS ON YOURSELF! Let go of the things that disturbs your mind and just created negativity around you. Carry those which helps you move forward and brings positivity.
“Confidence is the one best thing that you can wear all the time”
whether its about fashion or life, do it confidently. once you start believing in yourself, confidence will come along. I sometimes do not feel enough confident but I believe in myself. So its okay if you don't feel confident all the time. its a long process, so take your time. Be confident of whatever you're wearing, show your true self, bring your personality and fashion together and then see the magic.
Look around yourself, find people who you think can motivate you in the best way possible and get inspired. Specially, in the time of social media, there are lots and lots of people who have a lot to give, you just have to keep an eye on them and grow yourself. Decide for yourself what things to carry and what things to let go.
I hope this post can bring some positivity to your life. Good luck!